Kalymos, Greece
A lesson in trying hard
Kalymnos, Greece |
After an intense summer of training and
exams, I wasnt' sure if I would even want to climb when I arrived
here. But the rock has been so seductive and living so good that
even the most fatigued could not help but be invigerated.
Before I came, I faintly fantasized
about being able to climb 5.12 on this trip. I didn't put much
thought into this dream – it seemed like a good number, and one
that was sufficiently hard. But I didn't really believe I could do
it – so faint was my drive at the time – having invested so much
into the guides exams of the past year. On my first day climbing
here – the dream seemed utterly unobtainable as I flailed my way up
a route of 5.11- on top rope and felt shaky leading 5.10.
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Working Priapius in the Grande Grotto. |
These numbers only begin to tell the
story – since they don't really matter and I am but a moderate climber amidst this world of sport climbers. However, grades in climbing are in
some ways but a useful indicator of how we are doing – something
that I use to measure myself against a goal. What I am deeply
interested in is how I can take tangible lessons from achieving a
goal in climbing and transfer it into my life.
Lilla Molner trying hard & inspiring me to do the same |
A few days later, as I continued to
bumble my way up the moderate grades here in Kalymnos – I did
little research. Thanks google for producing an amazing query to my
question: “How to climb hard”.
http://gripped.com/2010/12/sections/articles/think-and-climb-hard-the-five-habits-of-successful-climbers/
I've read and re-read this article and
here is what I took away. I've been trying to apply this not only to
climbing – but also thinking quite a bit about how I can apply this
into my larger life.

I find this so true in my life at
large. If one wants to be exceptional at things they they currently
lack the foundation in – then some life restructuring needs to
take place. For instance, as I work toward becoming a full ski
guide – I must work many many hours as an apprentice ski guide and
back-country skier. As I work towards the goal of being calm, happy
and fulfilled – I must patiently cultivate the path of abundance,
yoga and meditation. Even though I may initially find these
pursuits hard.
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The famous 'Koala Bear' rest that I mastered. |
Transferring this skill into life
continues to be far more difficult. I've always done well with
things I believe I am good at, but never quite realized why.
Conversely, I struggle to try things that I think I may fail at to
the point that I rarely try them. In climbing this means that I am
far better at red-pointing something that on sighting. So I am working at visualizing achieving my larger goals in life and inviting that voice of self-belief to be a little stronger.
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Sometimes trying hard hurts |
In life this lesson requires tremendous self-awareness. For to truly challenge your weakness' one must have an hones self dialogue, insightful friends and a way to gauge progress. This means I've been intentionally seeking out things that I am really bad at, learning to ask for help from others and trying to be more honest about all those little (and big) life failures.
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Having fun while red-pointing a route |
I
also realized that a foundational hallmark of very good climbers was
that they always lead. Period. Even on routes that are
exceptionally hard for them – they still climb on lead, even if it
is bolt to bolt, take huge falls, and might not even make the top.
In developing this skill I've learned that I can frequently climb
routes bolt to bolt and make the chains. I've also learned that I
climb much better on lead and have far more of a sense of
satisfaction at putting in my own draws
Transferring
this skill into life demands that a larger goal can be broken up into
smaller segments and is related to training your weakness. It also
demands incredible self-awareness in identifying appropriate process
goals that will help me move towards a larger goal. As someone who
sets high expectations, a process goal for me is actually giving
myself credit for the small victories – which is something I've
always found quite challenging.
And - I'm working on 'falling' or putting myself in those situations of possible failure a little bit more. The fear comes up just as in climbing ... but unfortunately its a little tougher to jump knowing that a trustworthy belayer will catch me!
And - I'm working on 'falling' or putting myself in those situations of possible failure a little bit more. The fear comes up just as in climbing ... but unfortunately its a little tougher to jump knowing that a trustworthy belayer will catch me!
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Cathy and I on the Pirate ferry heading to Telendos |
5) Who you spend time with matters. I
have been so fortunate on this trip to climb with amazing people –
most notably my dear friend Jessie Brown. He inspires me, challenges
me and knows exactly how and when to push me. Importanyly, he
believed in me when I didn't believe in myself.
I've long known that I climb better with women. Niko, Tami, Lilla and Cathy all belayed me on some of my hardest routes with a gentle encouragement that only another woman could provide.
I've long known that I climb better with women. Niko, Tami, Lilla and Cathy all belayed me on some of my hardest routes with a gentle encouragement that only another woman could provide.

In life ... I think I've long known this point and have been so fortunate to have such incredible friends and mentors.
At the end of my trip ... what matters to me in the end not how hard I climbed, but who I spent time with and what I learned about myself that I can apply back into my life. Thanks to all the amazing friends with whom I've spent time. It has been a blast!
A big thanks to Joe Stock and Marc Piche for their photos. Their photos & blogs can be found at:
http://www.stockalpine.com/posts/kalymnos.html
http://www.marcpichephotography.com/Climbing/Rock-Climbing/Kalymnos-Greece-2012
A big thanks to Joe Stock and Marc Piche for their photos. Their photos & blogs can be found at:
http://www.stockalpine.com/posts/kalymnos.html
http://www.marcpichephotography.com/Climbing/Rock-Climbing/Kalymnos-Greece-2012